Hi
Today I am going to talk to you about ones life purpose, vision and mission is life. What does this really mean to you? when I think about this the first question that comes into my mind is "Who am I?" "where am I going". so here is my take on this, as adult,s we question our pure existence at every stage in our life when we have emotional downhills and at every one of those times those questions seem to always come up. It always seems to be when we are down trodden, disempowered and low that these questions come up. Why do we never ask these questions when in fact everything is going OUR way and when life seems to be in perfect harmony and your head and heart are in total synch. Have you ever wondered why this is? I spent years and years observing this behaviour in adults and children and do you know that I found that the older you get the more and more these questions are asked!
Why is it that a child never asks these questions. Well here is what I think and what I believe. See I so strongly believe that every child even before they are born knows what it is that they will be entering into the world to do. I found that the more a person is in synch with their true heart and follows this in living that path to their real purpose, the more appealing that they appear to the outside world. More people seem to connect with them because they themselves are connected to themselves so therefore in total harmony with the energy around them and therefore this is resonating outwards.
Mother Teresa never had to ask people to love and respect her they just did, she knew what she was here to do. The energey that liberated around her was empowering and full of substance: she was in total synch with her true being.
Martin luther the king , Lady Diana, Nelson Mandela, and Florence Knightingale, what about the "newer" people? Can you think of anyone who has that air around them? see if you can and you will know what I am talking about.
Is there then, not this same energy around children up to around the age of 4 years old? Why does everyone find them to be so cute no matter what colour, creed, race or religion? would you then not say that this is somehow linked to them really knowing their true purpose in life....their true being and are totally one with themselves.
These are the jewels in our lives that we need to love, and empower to just be so that there is a better world. They are the future of this world and we can empower these jewels to shine..
Happy New year to you all
May you discover your lifes purpose, mission and vision and next time you look at a child know they know far more than you could possibly imagine...
Love and happiness
Illa
Thursday, 30 December 2010
Wednesday, 22 December 2010
Innocence
Hi, my name is Illa and I have absolutely devoted my life to creating an energy when working with children, either through coaching them or teaching them of self respect and recognising who they really are. Let me share an interesting story with you. I have faciliated working through with children for years now and I have never known once for a child to not be able to show love. So what changes from an innocent 4 year old to a child who grows up feeling hatred and then being labelled as disruptive, badly behaved and uncontrollable
I am going to tell you a story about a little boy who absolutely touched my heart and who is the one who has kindled me to wake up and be the voice for children. As a baby this little boy was the most loving child ever, he never cried, he never threw tantrums and he was so engrossed in the mecanics of how amplifiers and electronic gadgets work. He created "live" wires out of rope and amplifiers out of cardboard boxes.
For name sake i am going to call him Ram, Ram was a very content little boy and seemed to not have a care in the world about anything but what I can only call pure love and joy. The most interesting image was how he got everybody to interact with him in "his" world, he was three then, so he was really cute, in the eyes of the adult.
As he turned 4, curioisity in him took over, he was ready to explore, in his world "the unknown", where this should have a time of learning, it became the time for critisism for him....a constant "dont do this and dont do that, and stop this and stop that, and go away, some other new child is sleeping and your disturbing him"
What do you think that this could make a child feel, after all he does not know anything but pure love and joy, so who has taught him the negative language?
Has he grew to be five, this young vibrant little boy was separated from his mother........where he saw his world to be pure love and joy had now become disillusioned with those words.
Does this pure being who really understands what pure love and joy really is, like nobody in the adultword could, become completely disarrayed, disillusioned by what his world really means.
He wants to get that feeling of just being back so in that search follows the people that should be showing him the real path and instead take him completely away from it.
Should we not as adults learn from them rather than them changing their perception and becoming insecure and lacking in confidence. Are we not to blame for the changes that they feel they have to adopt because of one word and one word only "TRUST". These little beings trust us to show and nurture their pureness and instead what do we do, we break them and take them completely away from who they really are ...a pure light of love and joy.
So I ask you the question: are kids really to blame?
I am going to tell you a story about a little boy who absolutely touched my heart and who is the one who has kindled me to wake up and be the voice for children. As a baby this little boy was the most loving child ever, he never cried, he never threw tantrums and he was so engrossed in the mecanics of how amplifiers and electronic gadgets work. He created "live" wires out of rope and amplifiers out of cardboard boxes.
For name sake i am going to call him Ram, Ram was a very content little boy and seemed to not have a care in the world about anything but what I can only call pure love and joy. The most interesting image was how he got everybody to interact with him in "his" world, he was three then, so he was really cute, in the eyes of the adult.
As he turned 4, curioisity in him took over, he was ready to explore, in his world "the unknown", where this should have a time of learning, it became the time for critisism for him....a constant "dont do this and dont do that, and stop this and stop that, and go away, some other new child is sleeping and your disturbing him"
What do you think that this could make a child feel, after all he does not know anything but pure love and joy, so who has taught him the negative language?
Has he grew to be five, this young vibrant little boy was separated from his mother........where he saw his world to be pure love and joy had now become disillusioned with those words.
Does this pure being who really understands what pure love and joy really is, like nobody in the adultword could, become completely disarrayed, disillusioned by what his world really means.
He wants to get that feeling of just being back so in that search follows the people that should be showing him the real path and instead take him completely away from it.
Should we not as adults learn from them rather than them changing their perception and becoming insecure and lacking in confidence. Are we not to blame for the changes that they feel they have to adopt because of one word and one word only "TRUST". These little beings trust us to show and nurture their pureness and instead what do we do, we break them and take them completely away from who they really are ...a pure light of love and joy.
So I ask you the question: are kids really to blame?
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